Now in Brooklyn
Meet women through women who've met you.
Dinners and nights out where the women at your table decide who gets invited back. No swiping, no singles nights, no cold approaches. Just a good night out, and introductions that start with trust.
Why it works
Walking in already trusted changes everything.
Arrive already trusted
Everyone in the room knows every man there was invited back by women who met him. You start where most guys never get.
A room that isn't mostly guys
We control the ratio. No crowding the bar, no competing with thirty other men for the same three conversations.
Nothing to perform
It starts as dinner with interesting people. Be good company and the rest follows.
How it works
Four steps from waitlist to introductions.
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Get in
Join the waitlist, or skip it when a woman who's already a member invites you.
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Come to dinner
A table of six, three women and three men, with a host. Then everyone meets at the bar.
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The cosign
The next morning, the women answer one private question: would they bring you out with their friends? One yes is enough.
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Get introduced
A matchmaker brings a friend to a night you're at and introduces you. She's paid when it works, and she'll tell you so. No blind dates.
Not cosigned yet?
You get the one thing no app gives you: honest feedback.
If nobody cosigns you after your first dinner, we send you anonymized feedback from the women at your table about how you came across, and your second dinner is on us. Most men never hear this from anyone.
Example feedback
“Great listener once he relaxed. The first twenty minutes felt like a job interview.”
Pricing
You pay more only when it works.
A flat membership, your own dinner at the partner restaurant's set menu, and a fee only when an introduction turns into a real date. Months where nothing happens cost you $99 and a good dinner.
What you pay
- Membership: dinners and every bar night
- $99 / month
- Your dinner, paid to the restaurant
- Set menu price
- When a setup leads to a confirmed first date
- $50
Drinks at the bar are on you, like any night out.
House rules
Why women trust the room, and why that helps you.
Be curious, not selling
Ask questions and listen. The men who get cosigned are the ones who were good company, not the ones who pitched themselves.
A no is a no
If she's not interested, that's the end of it. No follow-ups, no second attempts at the bar.
Everything is disclosed
Matchmakers are paid when setups work, and every introduction says so. Nobody here is faking anything, including you.
One verified report and you're out
It's why women keep coming, and why they bring their friends.
Questions
- Is this a dating app?
- It's a social club. People meet partners here, but nobody wears a name tag saying they're single, and it never feels like a singles event.
- Who are the women?
- Friends of our hosts and members, invited by people they trust. Many come in pairs or small groups.
- Do I find out who cosigned me?
- No. You only learn whether you were cosigned, which keeps every future dinner relaxed.
- What if I'm not cosigned?
- You get honest, anonymized feedback and a second dinner free.
- Where are the nights?
- Brooklyn to start, at partner restaurants and bars in Williamsburg and nearby. Addresses unlock the day of.